《如何成为一个更好的交谈者?》
演讲类型:TED 演讲主题:10 ways to have a better conversation 演讲人:Celeste Headlee
10 basic rules for having better conversations:
- Number one: Don't multitask.
- Number two: Don't pontificate.
- Number three: Use open-ended questions.
- Number four: Go with the flow.
- Number five: If you don't know, say that you don't know.
- Number six: Don't equate your experience with theirs.
- Number seven: Try not to repeat yourself.
- Number eight: Stay out of the weeds.
- Number nine: This is not the last one, but it is the most important one. Listen.
- Number Ten: Be brief.
对应中文:
- 不要三心二意。
- 不要好为人师。
- 使用开放式的问题。
- 顺其自然。
- 假如你不知道,就说你不知道。
- 不讲拿你的经历和其他人进行比较。
- 尽量不要重复你自己。
- 少说废话。
- 这不是最后一条,但是最重要的一条。认真倾听。
- 简明扼要。
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